IF YOU found your partner’s name on the Ashley Madison leak this week, it’s natural that you’ll be asking some serious questions.
If it turns out that yes, your partner was using the website to actively have an affair (and this won’t be the case for many), you’ll then be asking yourself: Should I stay with a cheater?
For both members of the couples affected, their struggles will be marked by an increased risk of all kinds of terrible behaviour as they grapple with the shock, hurt and humiliation of public shaming and possible betrayal. The Ashley Madison hackwill have some terrible consequences for those named and their partners and experts have speculated that we can expect not only separations, but also suicides. This is just not a moral issue and not just a privacy issue; it’s also a public health issue.
Public humiliation pushes the shame button for all of us and shame drives us to either retreat or attack to protect ourselves, so for the couples dealing with this hacking fallout the repair work is going to be extra hard.
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