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By Dr Zoë Krupka Writting

Being an ’empath’ doesn’t mean taking on other people’s baggage

I’d like all self-described empaths to understand that being empathic isn’t about being highly sensitive or constantly taking on other…

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By Dr Zoë Krupka Uncategorized Writting

Gone but never forgotten: How to comfort a child whose sibling has died

  In 1971, when I was four years old, my brother died of a congenital heart condition. Writing about this…

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By Dr Zoë Krupka Uncategorized Writting

Finding Hope in Shared Struggle

In a sea of recovery memoirs, each one more determined than the next to provide a blueprint for how to…

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By Dr Zoë Krupka Uncategorized Writting

New Plans for Dying

In one of my early roles as a newly minted Australian helper, I worked as a counsellor with people in…

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By Dr Zoë Krupka Uncategorized Writting

Top 3 Tips to Survive the In Laws

IT’S beginning to look a lot like that time of year when couples fight about their families. The festive season…

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By Dr Zoë Krupka Uncategorized Writting

Child-Free: Why Women Who Choose Not to Have Children are Given Such a Hard Time

Selfish, damaged, cold-hearted, shallow, overeducated and greedy. Women who choose not to have children are often labelled in these ways…

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By Dr Zoë Krupka Uncategorized Writting

Listening

I am in the business of listening. Two days a week I settle into my chair in an act of…

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By Dr Zoë Krupka Uncategorized Writting

Why ‘trust your instincts’ is terrible advice for new fathers

One of the more common pieces of advice given to new dads is to “learn by doing”. Think too much…

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By Dr Zoë Krupka Uncategorized Writting

Corporate Resilience Training Works – But What Are We Being Asked to Bear?

One of our most persistent psychological myths is that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. Abuse and disadvantage in…

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By Dr Zoë Krupka Uncategorized Writting

Blaming victims of domestic violence: How psychology taught us to be helpless

The story of how psychology framed women for their own assaults began, as so many of psychology’s stories do, with…

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ebook Zoe Krupka The fine art of Breaking up

The fine art of breaking up

I’ve just finished writing a tiny book about how to find your way through the manners minefield of breaking up. Whether you’re straight, gay, bi or transgender, married, separated or living in a polyamorous trio, I’m interested in how to help you navigate the process of going your own separate ways with grace and wellness.

I want to let you know that doing break ups well is worth the trouble.  It really is.  If you can look back on this time of chaos and hurt and know that you did the best you could and behaved like a courageous big-hearted imperfect human, you will feel better.  You really will.

And you won’t just feel better, behaving well will take you to a better place than your friends and relations who are acting like Tasmanian devils in distress or bunnies in the headlights. Behaving well will not only help you deal with the loss of your partner, it will also help you to feel better about yourself.  You can be proud of how you dealt with this terrible challenge.  And I really want that for you.

I’ve spent ages researching the science of behaving well.  In trying to find a way through the dark of breaking up, I’ve hunted down all sorts of evidence-based reasons and strategies to light the way for stepping up, standing up and even sometimes shutting up, in order to support your own growth, your children’s wellbeing (if you have them) and to give your ex an opportunity to behave well towards you in turn.

Thank you so much for your interest in a copy of the ebook The Fine Art of Breaking Up! It is on the Amazon shelves now, and you can check it out here.

All the very best,
Zoë

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